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Hero to Elder: An Archetypal Shift

HomeBlogJungianHero to Elder: An Archetypal Shift
Connie Zweig
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Hero to Elder: An Archetypal Shift

As millions of Baby Boomers choose not to merely grow old but to grow whole, to intentionally step across a threshold and become an Elder, we discover that aging can be a spiritual path. Its foundation is described in every spiritual tradition as ego transcendence, a shift in identity from a separate sense of self to a universal sense of inter-connectedness. 

This internal leap has been referred to in the Conscious Aging Movement as “gero-transcendence,” coined by Lars Tornstam. He described an inner shift in older people from a materialistic, rational view of the world to a more transcendent view, including an increased feeling of affinity with past generations, a diminished interest in superficial interactions and material things, and a greater need for contemplative time. 

I don’t mean to say that our ego or separate self-sense is inherently bad. In fact, our egos serve us to develop our talents, build careers, create families, and follow the hero’s journey of life. But, in late life, we seek a changing of the guards from Hero to Elder. When we want to transfer our center of gravity from small self-interest to larger communal and planetary well-being, the ego can no longer reign supreme. That means, we need to allow it to recede and cultivate a deeper inner guidance. As C.G. Jung put it, “An experience of the Self is always a defeat for the ego.”

Part of that task, in late life, includes breaking our identification with “young” or “ageless,” which makes the word “Elder” unappealing and unworthy as a goal. It includes allowing mortality awareness to penetrate enough that it humbles our ego. It includes the grieving and gratitude that follow a life review. And it includes taking on a higher purpose for the sake of others, for the sake of our souls, and for the sake of the world. Just as we left a fleeting childhood behind, now we move beyond the fevered ambitions of adulthood to embrace an Elder’s life.

In other words, the Elder is not another role to be put on like a change of wardrobe. Elder is not merely how we do what we do differently or even more wisely. Joseph Campbell’s renowned telling of the hero’s journey ends with the hero, reborn, returning to the ordinary world with a boon. I like to think of this boon as the deeper, wider consciousness of the Elder. 

So, when the Hero crosses the threshold to become the Elder, he or she lives with and teaches with this new awareness. In myths and tales, we see the Elder, Teacher, Mentor aiding or training the hero, like the fairy godmother with Cinderella or Merlin with King Arthur. This figure is inspired by divine wisdom, a connection to Spirit, and his/her advice brings power with conscience. 

Our own life stories are full of guidance, warnings, and reconciliations, if we know how to read them. Mentors and Elders have appeared to aid us in crisis, train us in worldly skills, pass on their knowledge to us, and connect us to another, more magical reality. For me, an Indian yogi appeared at a fragile transition, and I received an initiation into contemplative practice at a young age, forever altering my values and vision of my future. For others, an Elder offered skill, empowerment, creativity, or emotional support.

After our dramatic heroic journeys as Boomers, we can now re-enter the story as those wise men and women who mentored us on the path – and give our own boons to the next generation. To do this, we need to take the empty seat that awaits us. We need to welcome a new generation of seekers and change agents, pass the lightsaber and transmit values to them. For the wisdom and gifts of older adults are nourishment for a world starved of meaning.

Some of us will hear the call to become Activist Elders, joining the youth in the streets who are fighting for the end of income inequality, hunger, homelessness, gun violence, money in politics, and sexual assault. Others will be Earth Elders, fierce guardians of our habitat. Some of us will hear the inner call to become Spiritual Elders, teaching contemplative practices to those who are lost in digital distraction. Some of us will hear the call of the Muse to become Creative Elders, allowing visual or performing art to move through them.

But without realized models to evoke our archetypal depths, we are literally lost in the world. We have no map; we have no guide; we have no song. Throughout history, Elders have served as scouts, beckoning us to enter the new land of late life. 

Today we are the Elders who we have long been seeking. Our search for others to serve as mentors, gurus, and guides is over. We are the ones to pass the torch. 

 

Discover how to find renewal in identity beyond role, and become who we truly are, perhaps for the first time. Enjoy Connie Zweig’s course: Aging in a soulful way. 

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Connie Zweig
Connie Zweig

Connie Zweig, Ph.D., retired as a Jungian-oriented therapist in 2018. She is a bestselling author of Meeting the Shadow, Romancing the Shadow, Meeting the Shadow of Spirituality, and a novel, A Moth to the Flame: The Life of Sufi Poet Rumi.

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  • Mary Sheila Bartle says:
    December 4, 2021 at 10:43

    Beautiful! And it seems doable, given the humility and reflection you mention. I am more at ease with recognizing and revering my Elders, however, than becoming one.

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  • Steve Thoren says:
    December 4, 2021 at 14:52

    This was a really wonderful post. It is very appropriate for me. I am a retired school soscial worker and currently have the priveledge of serving as President of my local Jung Center in Buffalo NY. In my life I have had some gidance from older friends and of course from books, church and meditation. I taught a class in leadership and meditation a few years ago. For really the first time I felt like a “spiritual teacher”. Now in my interactions with others I have noticed how little patience I have for foolish talk, judgements, and lack of focus. Helping bring people back to their center from whatever distractive island they occupy is a meaningful action. I cannot be “nice” for niceness sake. There is nothing stopping us from “being good” for goodness sake. I have lamented my lack of genuine elders in my life but now I get to be one. I am the Elder I have been seeking! Indeed!

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  • Suzanne Prouty says:
    December 4, 2021 at 16:47

    I love the work Connie has been doing, and how effectively she is getting this (serious) work, with her scholarly and thoughtful insights, out into the community… For me, it’s such a lovely meditative way to think about aging. And a great template for reframing who we are (and who I am) in this late stage of life as we become carriers of the boon.

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